Laugh, yes laughing before during and after sex is great. Try to lighten it up in the bedroom. Don't worry so much about your performance, timing, or unrealistic expectations just relax and enjoy the ride. Always set out to have fun, and don't be afraid to laugh at yourselves. Why not start out with a good laugh by experimenting with a new sex toy. Try strapping a Remote Butterfly over your clit and let him have the controls or try a couple's cock ring on his penis with dual vibes, which means you'll both  be smiling while getting your buzz on.  Remember laughter is one of the keys to great sex along with communication, enthusiasm and imagination! So go have fun and enjoy yourselves.